Live Your Way Into The Answer
Some weeks arrive carrying more questions than answers. The temptation, as always, is to resolve them quickly. To find the explanation, the lesson, the neat conclusion.
Rilke knew this feeling. He wrote to a young poet who was doing exactly that — reaching for answers before he had learned to sit with the questions.
"I would like to beg you, dear friend, as well as I can, to have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Don't search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer."
— Rainer Maria Rilke. Letters to a Young Poet.
Some things we just know. We know them immediately, completely, without searching.
For everything else — the answers we find easily are for questions not worth asking.
The answer, as life keeps reminding us, is rarely the point.